If a girl tells you beforehand that she doesn’t want sex, and you deceive her into coming over by assuring her it’s just a harmless visit, only to make sexual advances and pressure her into sex when she arrives, you are a rapist. Consent obtained through deception, pressure, or coercion is not consent
When I say “not all men” it also refers to the guy who stood on the balcony of a college frat party I was at and saw me get pinned to a car by another frat boy who was 6’5” and huge compared to me and he JUMPED OFF THE BALCONY, pulled him off me, beat his ass in front of everyone and was his friend. Yes…I did in fact eventually marry the guy from the balcony who then became a well loved doctor...
actually giving a shit about rape culture and the prevalence of sexual assault will drive you slowly insane like it actually is enough to completely lose hope in all of humanity
Folks who are leaving VGen and looking for another site for comms. I HIGHLY suggest @artistreeio!
I've been using Artistree (I didn't really like VGen..) for several years now and can confidently suggest it!!