Women think they have a lot of options because there's a bunch of thirsty men in their DMs or they're getting approached on the street. But what they don't realize is those aren't real options.
They just want to fvck you. How many of those dudes would introduce you to their family,would they have their own family with you, would they invest in you mentally, emotionally, and spiritually, and be there for you on your worst days?
A lot of women think they're high value because a bunch of thirsty dudes are trying to take them on dates, when in reality, those men only wanna take you out in hopes that you give them something at the end of the night. Y'all talk about how y'all can keep any man you want, but you've never had a man that was actually committed to spending the rest of his life with you and willing to build something of actual true substance with you.
When you have a bunch of men that are willing to do that for you, then you can talk to me about having options
Öğrendiğim en büyük hayat dersi, herzaman yalnız kalmaya hazır olmak. İnsanlar saniyeler içinde değişebilir. Bugün onlar için dünyanın en değerlisiyken yarın hiç bi şeyi oluyorsunuz.
TÜM ERKEKLERDEN ÖZÜR DİLİYORUM
Uzun süre “Kadınlar paraya değil; karaktere, sadakate ve güvene bakar.” diye düşündüm. Fakat çevremde gördüğüm tablo ne yazık ki başka…
Günümüzde kadınların büyük bir kısmı için erkeğin karakteri, ancak parası ve statüsü varsa değerli. Dilde güven aranıyor, seçimde maddi imkân. Huzur veren erkeğe “sıkıcı”, para harcayıp sürekli eğlendiren erkeğe “çekici” deniyor.
Elbette karakteri ve sadakati her şeyin önünde tutan kadınlar var; fakat artık azınlıkta kaldıklarını düşünüyorum. Pek çok kadın bir erkeğin kendisini değil, onun sunduğu hayatı seviyor.
Bu yüzden bugüne kadar “Yanlış kadınları seçiyorsunuz.” diyerek bütün suçu erkeklere yüklediğim için özür dilerim. Bazen sorun sizin yetersiz olmanız değil; karşınızdaki kişinin sevgiyi bile maddi imkânlarla ölçmesidir.
In my 20s, I dated a single mother.
I thought I was being “understanding,” “mature,” and “different from other guys.”
Bro… I was just stupid.
At first everything seemed normal. Cute texts. Good vibes. Real chemistry.
Then the real script started.
Every plan depended on her ex.
Every argument had the sentence “you don’t get it, my child comes first.”
Every moment I wanted peace, I got chaos instead - kids crying, drama at the door, random calls from the baby daddy.
One day I went to her place and her baby daddy was inside fixing a curtain.
She said, “Don’t worry, he’s just helping.”
Helping who?
Helping why?
Helping how?
My spirit left my body.
That’s when I realized something: I wasn’t dating just her.
I was dating her past, her responsibilities, her schedule, her stress, and her baby daddy who apparently had VIP access.
I walked out of that house with the wind hitting my face like a movie scene.
My heart and my logic were both broken.
That night I told myself:
“Bro… pick a life you can actually control.”
So I cut it off, not out of hate but because I had learnt my lesson.
Weeks later she texted,
“You gave up too fast.”
No, I didn’t.
I just woke up.
Men,
If you’re not ready to deal with another man’s child, another man’s presence, and a life that isn’t built around you… then avoid single mothers.
Choose peace. Choose simplicity. Find a woman of your own.
“If you love two people at the same time, choose the second. Because if you really loved the first one, you wouldn't have fallen for the second.”
— Johnny Depp
A cheating woman is bad enough but you know what's worse?
A woman who pretends to be a good person, but in reality is a professional liar, a toxic manipulator, and an expert at playing the victim.
"Lo que más odia el rebaño, es aquel que piensa distinto. No es tanto la opinión en sí, como la osadía de querer pensar por sí mismo. Algo que ellos no saben hacer"
Arthur Schopenhauer
A woman can sleep with almost any man she wants.
A man sleeps with whoever gives him the chance.
But when it’s time to settle down,
the man chooses.
The woman waits to be chosen.