I just got to the office now and heard that my colleague that has been an HR assistant for 10 years Quit.😂
In those 10 years, 3 HR managers have come and gone. All outsiders and they were trained by her.
Last one resigned and for the first time, I thought maybe they’d finally see her.
Instead, they brought another outsider.
So instead of training him as usual, she did something different.
She got another job, tendered her resignation and took her one-month leave.😭
Now the office is struggling.
HR is a mess.
And people are just realizing, She was HR.
The moment when Bucci Franklin became Emotional on stage while giving his speech for his Best Supporting Actor Award in To Kill a Monkey❤️🫶
He lost his Mom 7 days to shooting the movie.
#Amvca12#Amvca
❝I think quite personally that as women age, their lives become much more interesting, and also more complex, more layered, but also sadly, less visible.❞
- Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie
I got removed from the family group chat after my uncle, who is a pastor, said, “Having tattoos is a sin,” and I replied, “Cheating on your wife is also a sin.”🤧🤧
My mom came over, cleaned my kitchen, living room, and bathroom. Did my dishes that were piled up in my sink. Did probably a months worth of laundry. Folded it all. Made me crab dip for lunch. Made me a pot roast and mashed potatoes for dinner. Laid in bed with me while I cried and stroked my hair. Brought a spend the night bag so she could sleep over.
Today is her wedding anniversary. I said “isn’t today your anniversary? Don’t you want to be doing something?” And she said “yes. Spend time with you.”
I was so ashamed I let myself and my life get this bad. I was so embarrassed everything around me, including me, was a mess. I cried and told her how ashamed I was that I couldn’t figure out how to function and I was so embarrassed she had to see me, and my apartment like this. And she just smiled and kissed me on the head and said “I will always do anything for you.” Didn’t make me feel gross. Or lazy. Or like a charity case. She saw her baby who needed help. An almost 30 year old woman was just her baby who needed taken care of once again.
To be loved like that can make even the worst days of your life feel less heavy. Mothers are the most beautiful creatures on the planet. I went from crying because of all of the above, to crying that someone loves me that much. Nothing will ever compare.