Man, it's heartbreaking
when you come to terms with the fact that maybe the safest way to live is alone. You start to realize you're getting older, and finding someone real to build a life with just isn't likely.
Most people are either too into themselves, still chasing the streets, stuck on an ex, trapped in their past, or they come into your life just enough to confuse you. They want you, but not enough to choose you, and still won't let you go. We're living in a time where being toxic is normalized, and it's depressing to admit that being single might be the only way to truly protect your peace and mental health. Relationships today feel nearly impossible.
So many people lack honesty, consistency, and real communication. And the worst part is knowing exactly what you have to offer, but never finding someone who has a table worth bringing it to
I went jogging at Elekahia stadium and somehow ended up in a heated argument with one guy. We were almost fighting before people separated us. Omo after my run on my way out of the stadium, I saw him teaching people martial arts. God will always look out for his children. 🙄
🚨 Jamal Musiala statement on his physical conditions.
“First things first - I’m doing well! Above all, I’m incredibly grateful for all your messages and your support! I understand that many of you are worried. I want to put those concerns to rest today and explain a little more: I have been diagnosed with brief, temporary episodes of absence that are easily treatable and are caused by a neurological dysfunction. These can lead to the moments that have occurred recently, such as against Leipzig and now in Heidenheim. I know that they may seem scary at first glance - but for me, they are currently simply part of my everyday life. I am receiving the best possible medical care in this regard, and I am very optimistic. FC Bayern and the people closest to me are always by my side and supporting me on this journey
What is important is that there is no additional health risk beyond this. In close consultation and regular communication with the specialists, it was my personal wish to face this challenge and, with the approval of the neurological specialists, to continue doing what helps me most in my recovery: simply living my everyday life and continuing to pursue my passion of playing football. I have taken responsibility for that decision. Overall, I have a very good feeling and I am on a good path. What helps me most along the way is continuing to chase victories and titles with my team, with your incredible support. I hope this helps you understand me better. At the same time, I ask for your understanding that I would like to continue keeping this matter within the circle of my closest confidants, the club and the experts.
Thank you very much”.
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this is insane. i genuinely don't understand why ambitious people aren't shown this lecture before their careers start consuming their entire lives.
clayton christensen spent his career studying why successful companies collapse. in his final class, he asked students to apply the theory to themselves: if you keep allocating your time the same way, what life are you actually building?
he had already seen the answer in his own harvard mba class. everyone looked successful at the fifth reunion; by the 10th, 15th, 20th, and 25th, many were unhappy, divorced, and living far from their children.
work shows you the score immediately. close a sale, ship a product, finish a presentation, earn a promotion, get paid.
an hour with your child may produce nothing you can measure today; it may take 20 years to understand what that hour built. so the next free hour goes back to work, one rational decision at a time.
this is how people build lives they never planned: through hundreds of right decisions that lead in the wrong direction, day after day.
money, titles, and headcount are easy to count. christensen believed a life should be measured by the people who became better because you were there.
he died in 2020.
one question remains: if someone saw only where your time, energy, and attention went this year, what would they think actually mattered to you?
the full 19-minute lecture is in the video below.
Marcus Aurelius wrote this over 1800 years ago:
“It never ceases to amaze me: we all love ourselves more than other people, but care more about their opinion than our own.”
I have a rare blood type and use to donate all the time. Then I found out how much hospitals were charging patients for my DONATED blood. I haven't donate since.