America First πΊπΈ who observes this simulation + laughs with funny people. Haiku. Selfhealer. *cusp Boomer raising Gen-Z. πͺπ»π. ππ charmer.
This all resonates with me. Iβve recently been doing work with Internal Family Systems and realizing that Iβve taken on the roles of caretaker, rescuer, and protector. In the last few situations, those roles have only come back to bite me in the ass, and I now recognize that they no longer work for me. So Iβm learning to let people experience the consequences of their own choices. I donβt need to rescue, protect, or caretake them.