I used to be a firm believer in having a conversation before it gets to this point, bc just like any r/ship that you value, you’ve got to at least communicate. But I’ve quickly realised that someone can know you many years, but over a simple misunderstanding, mischaracterise you.
The only reason I'm not drowning in my sorrows right now is because I strongly believe that everything that's happening is according to God's plan and I'm no longer getting in the way of that. I can't pray, walk by faith and be worried at the same time.
it is an unwritten rule of life that after every prolonged period of hardship and uncertainty, there is going to be a period when you are going to achieve quantum leaps across multiple areas of your life. the only requirement is that you do not give up on yourself
Yes it gets lonely here and there but the peace that comes with not being attached to anyone? Oh my goodness I used to pray for days like this. No one ruins your day because they disappeared on you or they didn’t reply to a text you just live your life in peace nje ke light man
My friends have loved me in ways that most, if not all of my lovers have never even imagined.
In little ways and in big ways, consistently, intentionally and wholeheartedly.
I love the idea of partnership but my friends will always have a place in my heart.
Even Pablo Escobar built schools, clinics, homes and funded education for the people in his favela.
These dogs are buying Lamborghinis & Porsches with our hard earned taxes. Fucken hell mate.
an eldest daughter once said being the firstborn means you’re automatically irritated by incompetence. not because you’re harsh, but because you were never given the room to be incompetent yourself. the daughters who know… know.
All the simple luxuries are very much attainable and within reach.. social media has glorified taking short cuts and falling prey to criminals. It’s simple. Go to school, work hard, attain critical skills, save up and start ur own thing (if possible). Soft life is not far fetched