independent women really appreciate being treated with softness, because every part of their life they always have to show up strong, and every bit of happiness that they taste, they have to fight for.
I don’t need my man to be rude or dismissive to other women to prove anything to me. I prefer a man who’s genuinely respectful and knows how to carry himself, no matter who he’s around. His kindness doesn’t threaten me my place is already secure.
Im really just a girl who been thru a LOT. That’s why I move how I move. I made mistakes,faced every consequence&still kept going. I cry in private,wipe my own tears&show up like nothing ever broke me. I don’t fold, I don’t quit, and I don’t wait on nobody…I got me. Always🫂💪🏾✨
I like being the way I am, a little distant from everyone, direct when necessary, with a serious face, I don't talk to just anyone, nor do I try to fit in where I don't want to be, and the truth is I am calm and at peace like this
I have a friend who moves quietly. You don’t know she’s relocating until the boxes are packed. You don’t know she bought a car until she pulls up in it. Her relationship? Never a group discussion. What’s hers stays hers.
I used to think that meant she wasn’t open, like real friendship required sharing everything. But I get it now. It’s not distance, it’s protection. It’s privacy. It’s peace. Not everything needs an audience, and not every bond needs full access to be real.
I don't want sex. I want love. I want to be understood. I want to never feel alone. I want to come home to someone I miss all day when l'm at work. I want someone who motivates me. I want someone who trusts me. I want someone who loves me for me, not what I do. I want real love.