Bella

Crowned by self-love • 🌷 Lunar lover • 🅱🅰🅳🅳🅸🅴 🆅🅸🅱🅴 🔥

[herineatieno @herineatieno_]

Couldn't agree more. Some of the best chapters of my life happened with almost nd one watching.

[my book is better than my tweets @MichellCClark]

maybe the point isn't to become so wise and stoic that nothing ever hurts your feelings. maybe it's to become secure enough that you can feel the sting, laugh at yourself a little, learn what you need to learn, and keep your heart open anyway.

[The Soul Strings @thesoulstrings]

Real talk Privacy isn't about hiding. It's about protecting the soft parts of your journey.

[Wanjiku @Wanjikugrace_]

Needed this reminder Working on yourself in private feels safe... and somehow more sacred.

[Phenny Atieno @PhennyAtieno_]

This resonates so hard I've been enjoying my life a lot more since I stopped inviting opinions.

[Steve 🇭🇹 @wholesomezoe]

People ARE mean because they’re not getting interactions, connection, community, intimacy, etc regularly and the less you have of it the more closed off you become which brings on all the shit you see on apps regularly. Nasty recurring relentless cycle

[Pauline Anyango @paulineanyango_]

One of the most peaceful realisations I've had too. Not everything needs to be shared to be real.

[Flo @apiyoflo]

Privacy really does protect the joy of becoming who you're meant to be.

[Yuri💫♡ @yuri_xys]

Felt this deeply. There's a special kind of freedom in building your life without ar audience.

[Amondi @Amondi_y]

"the less people know about your process, the more space you have to actually grow."

[🐾p3arlly 𐙚 @y0urhaunt3dgf]

Life becomes much lighter when you understand that your job isn't to control how others think, act or feel. Your job is to stay rooted in who you are, act with integrity, stay devoted to your evolution, and let go of everything that isn't yours to carry.

[Amek🇰🇪 @raphaelamek]

This is exactly it. The quiet progress hits different when no one's watching or weighing in.

[ebibabby @Bikiseee]

Hey babe! So what we do with emotions is process them. We sit w them & we allow them move through us. We don’t discard or attempt to make out intelligent takeaways so we feel good. I know it’s hard babe, but you can do hard things. & this one in particular is nonnegotiable. 💋💋

[Nora @nora_mindnotes]

One thing I'm learning is that privacy brings a certain kind of peace. You can work on yourself, make plans, change your life and enjoy your progress without inviting everybody to have an opinion on it.

[Amondi @Amondi_y]

"don't forget to have fun along the way. Everything can't be about productivity."

[Bella @Bellaahiambo]

The mature version of me doesn’t need the last word. She just needs her peace back.

[Nora @nora_mindnotes]

Emotional maturity isn’t about winning every conversation. It’s about knowing which ones aren’t worth having. You don’t have to correct every misunderstanding, answer every provocation, or defend every decision. Some things are better left where they are.

[Amondi @Amondi_y]

"you can survive things not working out is the part I needed to hear. Failure feels heavier in my head than it usually is in real life."

[The Soul Strings @thesoulstrings]

Emotional maturity is realizing that not every provocation is an invitation you have to accept.

[Bella @Bellaahiambo]

@stickerscola Absolutely

[Sco @stickerscola]

I’ve learned that explaining myself to the wrong person only drains me and never changes their mind.