If you’re going to be strict with men, stop telling them the consequences. See, this is where most ppl get it twisted. We think boundaries are about speeches, warnings, ultimatums. The more you explain, you invite negotiation & in that moment, you’ve already lost ground.
@triplexdshott You can absolutely open your eyes and ears and listen to other people’s experiences without experiencing the thing personally. The reason people experience surprise is because of their just world fallacy, they’re not empathetic, and they think they’re exceptional.
at some point i want to discuss how they’re systemically swiping away our ability to heal ourselves within the comfort of our own homes by REMOVING BATH TUBS OUT OF THESE APARTMENTS.