Stop calling her crazy.
You pushed her to the breaking point.
You ignored her when she tried to communicate.
You dismissed her feelings for months.
You lied to her face repeatedly.
You disrespected her boundaries daily.
You made her question her own reality.
You gaslighted her until she couldn't trust herself.
Then act shocked when she snaps.
Then call her dramatic when she finally reacts.
Then label her crazy when she breaks down.
Then act like you don't know why she's upset.
You created the storm then complained about the rain.
You lit the match then blamed her for the fire.
You poked the bear then called it aggressive.
Her reaction is not the problem, your actions are.
Her anger is valid, your behavior caused it.
Her breakdown is reasonable, your treatment created it.
Her response makes sense, your choices don't.
Stop making her the villain for reacting to your chaos.
Stop calling her unstable when you're the one creating instability.
Stop labeling her emotional when you're the one being emotionally abusive.
A calm woman doesn't just become "crazy" overnight.
She becomes broken by someone who claims to love her.
You don't get to break someone then judge how they heal.
THE MAGNETIC PRINCIPLE
The strength of your magnetic field is largely responsible (if not completely) for your mental and physical health.
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ยฉ Manly P. Hall
Donโt fall in love with a woman who reads, a woman who feels too much, a woman who writes...
Donโt fall in love with an educated, magical, delusional, crazy woman. Donโt fall in love with a woman who thinks, who knows what she knows and also knows how to fly; a woman sure of herself.
Donโt fall in love with a woman who laughs or cries making love, knows how to turn her spirit into flesh; let alone one that loves poetry (these are the most dangerous), or spends half an hour contemplating a painting and isn't able to live without music.
Donโt fall in love with a woman who is interested in politics and is rebellious and feel a huge horror from injustice. One who does not like to watch television at all. Or a woman who is beautiful no matter the features of her face or her body.
Donโt fall in love with a woman who is intense, entertaining, lucid and irreverent. Donโt wish to fall in love with a woman like that.
Because when you fall in love with a woman like that, whether she stays with you or not, whether she loves you or not, from a woman like that, you never come back.
~ Martha Rivera-Garrido
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