this is domestic abuse. isolating your partner, testing their boundaries, mocking them in public, hitting them
saying that it’s his fault or that “he should have just left” is rhetoric used in real life to dismiss domestic abuse victims and excuse the perpetrator
yes, actually. he is.
stella was a victim of the system and stolas is a victim of her abuse. both are true. they’re both victims. not all victims are perfect, there’s no one set mold that a victim needs to fall into.
quick question: would y’all be defending stella if the roles reversed? if that was a man bragging about his wife disassociating during sex to his friends whilst laughing, if that was a man attempting to hit his wife after she demanded she wanted to divorce? a victim is a victim.
where the hell did this narrative that stolas publicly embarrassed stella come from when stella was literally throwing “not divorced” parties and speaking to her friends like this in a public setting whilst stolas is in earshot. and this is all before he cheated