I had sex with different women when I was young and broke.
And I had a stable girlfriend.
So when I started making money, it wasn't difficult for me to quickly marry my wife.
I wasn't ready to start spending money on different women for the sex that I had severally when I was broke.
I had to secure the bag first, because I knew even as a married man, toto would still yakpa.
Only that I must have sorted my home first, before spending the change that is left.
End.
I hope you watch this video and see quit the comparison.
Someone here said their friends who barely pray have it easy, another one said her wayward friends get the best Men.
Here’s your answer!
Goodnight
"The Bible didn't say that men must be the providers".
Please explain these verses to me, like a 5 year old.
Ephesians 5: 23.
For the husband is the head of the wife, as Christ is the head of the church, his body as himself its savior.
Ephesians 5: 25-27.
Husbands, love your wives as Christ loved the church, & gave himself up for her. Husbands love your wives as your own bodies. He who loves his wife, loves himself. For no one hated his own flesh, but nourishes and cherishes it, just as Christ loved the church.
Genesis 2: 15 & 18.
God placed man in the garden to work on it, & created women as the helper suitable for him.
1 Timothy 5: 8.
Anyone who does not provide for his relatives, especially his own household, has denied his faith and is worst than an infidel.
I am waiting.
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Before you go and cheat on your lovely wife, please calculate the amount that you'd spend on the woman you are going to cheat with.
Then assess the needs of your wife & kids.
If you have not met them, please spend that money on your wife and kids, then sit at home.
End.
I recall a DM that I shared one time from a young man.
His father was having financial problems for a long time.
So he decided to be coming home sparingly.
When he asked his father why he seldom came home..
"My son, I can't come back home to eat, if I cannot give your mother money to cook the food. The insult I get from your mother will not let the food digest in my stomach. I would rather eat the food that you or your brother provided money for".
Every man has an ego.
Some men have unfortunately accepted their fate, and some would rather stay away, to avoid the humiliation.
A woman's money is not sweet to taste.
And they don't give free money to men.
Especially men that are supposed to be their providers, & sleeping with them.
If she shelters you, one day she will remind you that you're a "visitor".
If she feeds you, one day she will remind you that you are eating free meals.
The fact that you may observed this from your home when you were still under your parents, & that they're still together, doesn't mean your father was happy throughout.
He either did not have a choice, or he became too relaxed & used to the subtle insults & humiliation.
And your father will never advice you to be in his position.
Yes, he will praise your mother for her years of kindness towards him, but he'll tell you not to depend on a woman for such things.
And you shouldn't.
For you single young men,
Start preparing yourselves for the task ahead of you.
Tell yourselves that you can do it through Christ that strengthens you.
If you marry a woman that is also making money, be happy with your choice.
But only rely on her money, and not depend on it.
Learn to appreciate your wife whenever she does things for you, the house, or for the children.
Learn to pay her back, if not in full, but in part.
By doing so, you're telling her that you appreciate her support and kindness. And that you know it's your responsibility to provide for her.
Your wife is not making money for you.
She's making it for herself and your children.
There a many things that she would be doing with her money, that may not be visible to you.
But she's helping you.
Where you'd miss it, is when you start to act entitled to her money, & start demanding that she also plays your role because she's your wife.
If your wife tells you to start sharing the cooking, cleaning, nursing, nurturing etc with her, would you be happy doing it?
Roles can be flexed, but they're not interchangeable.
And this is the natural order.
God is nature.
End.
Alright, let's move on.
I want to particularly tell this to you young men.
Agreed, men & women cheat.
But you see any lady that knows that you know that she's cheating with you?
Please do not marry her.
If you do not understand, let me break it down a bit.
Sandra's boyfriend is Tunde.
But Sandra is cheating with Okechuckwu.
And Okechuckwu knows that Sandra is dating Tunde.
Then Sandra later breaks up with Tunde.
And Okechuckwu starts to date Sandra.
Okechuckwu is the loser and Tunde is the winner.
Except Okechuckwu does not marry Sandra.
It's better for Tunde to marry Sandra, if Tunde is not aware that Sandra was cheating on him with Okechuckwu.
Sandra will respect Tunde because is a blind husband.
And it's highly possible that Sandra may not cheat on Tunde as his wife.
But if Okechuckwu marries Sandra, then Sandra will maltreat Okechuckwu, cheat on him & would not feel any remorse.
Because Okechuckwu already knew that Sandra was a cheat, & he could not walk away and be a man.
And the probability that Sandra would go back to Tunde to cheat on Okechuckwu is high.
Women's fidelity is their shield.
It's their bargaining chip & bragging right in both relationships and marriage.
Any man that refuses to walk away when she loses that shield, would lose his respect.
Because she expects you to walk away.
If you refuse to walk away, she'll become dangerous, despise you, & become bold in challenging you.
End.
If you’re trying to get pregnant,please do the following (note:I’ve heard this from Doctors & Nurses)
-Avoid lubricants,some lubes are enemies of fertility,they can slow down the movement of spermatozoa
-Don’t wait for only ovulation to have sex
-Avoid taking unprescribed drugs
Alright, let's move on.
Please read this DM from a married man.
He did not have sex with his non-virgin wife until marriage.
Now, they're not sexually compatible, & his wife is addicted to porn.
He'll always have to finger his wife before she cums.
And according to him,
This wedding was done 14yrs ago but i remember it like yesterday!
Stephanie Linus is a woman that has been killing it with her spouse by her side
Super Happy for them!
Happy Anniversary to the Linus 😍