To my lovely mutuals, due to account issues, I’m starting fresh on @beniwiner. This isn’t goodbye I’d really love to still have you with me. Please follow and stay connected 🔔
Got paid today, glory be to God 💃
And to every mutual who has shown me love on this app, thank you. You people are the reason I keep showing up here.
Now let me tell you something that has been sitting in my chest since Sunday.
There is a woman in my church. She is...
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I bought a 7 million Naira car in April, and it almost destroyed my family.
Not because of jealousy. Not because of money. But because of a lie I never imagined my own brother could tell.
When I bought the car, my parking space wasn't ready yet.
My older brother offered to ...
@Queeneth01olx This already sounds like one of those “family + money + trust” situations that never ends well… but what kind of lie from a brother is big enough to almost tear everything apart like that?
A lady of 27 waking up at 9am.
The same time old women that clean the city of Abuja are already returning from their daily chores??
My mum wakes as early as 3am. We literally had to plead with her to try for 5am atleast. Even my parents last child won't be caught in bed at 6:30am. I wake up exactly 4am. If I had a very stressful day, it means I may wake up late and that "late" should be 6am-7am max. Even if I'm by myself, my eyes must be open at 7am. No jokes or lies here.
Mind you, I'm not an "early bird" I am mostly productive at night time. But no matter how late I sleep, I won't be in bed at 8am. Infact, my sis is here. She knows. Once I open my eyes, the first question is: What's the time?? Because I need to get started and make sure I'm having a productive day! This didn't just happen, I deliberately made it so. I started with the alarms, the deliberate "wake me up at so so time". It's never convenient for anyone. But as a woman, you have no choice. Yes. And your body system will adapt immediately to that time.
Nowadays, I literally force myself to sleep at 11pm. But, I'll still wake 4-5am, regardless of when I slept.
I cry for the generation of children most ladies in this age are going to raise.
I've sincerely not said this to shame anyone. It's a reawakening. It's a charge. We can do better please.
Thank God for that solid advice from Sir Agba. Let's hope she starts quickly to right her wrongs. It's doable only if she's willing.
@BlessingCh73232 Waking up early is good discipline, but turning it into a “you have no choice as a woman” rule is where it starts sounding more like pressure than productivity… do you really think 4–5am automatically means a better life for everyone?
A married woman went back to her ex because the husband couldn't provide for the family for a year. She spoke to her ex about it and the man told her he's made and can take care of her. Meanwhile, this ex is expecting a baby with his own wife.
The woman was asked why she had to leave her husband for her ex and she said,
"He stopped providing for a month, I understood. For two months. I understood. Three, four to one who year?? Nah, I tried already.
My friends would've left that marriage on the first month of lack".
Was she wrong to have left that man?
Let me have your thoughts on this.
@BlessingCh73232 Honestly it’s not even about “a month or a year,” it’s that she already had a backup plan while still in the marriage… at that point was it survival or just giving up too fast?
The advice that saved her life was the advice she hated the most.
A woman I know got a job offer in another city. Better salary, better title, everything she had been praying for.
Everyone congratulated her except her older brother.
He sat quietly during the family dinner, then said, "Don't rush. Something about this feels off. Give it a few weeks."
She was annoyed.
"A few weeks? Do you know how hard I've worked for this?"
They argued that night. She accused him of being negative and unsupportive. For days, she barely answered his calls.
The company kept pressuring her to resign from her current job immediately. They wanted her to start fast. She was ready to sign everything.
But her brother's words kept bothering her.
Against her own wishes, she delayed her resignation.
Three weeks later, the company stopped responding.
Emails bounced back.
Phone numbers stopped working.
The office address turned out to be a rented space used for interviews.
It was all fake.
I still remember seeing her sitting in her car afterward, staring at her phone. Not crying. Just quiet.
She later admitted something that stuck with me.
"The advice that saved me wasn't the advice I wanted. It was the advice that irritated me."
Sometimes the people who care about us don't tell us what feels good. They tell us what we need to hear.
Have you ever ignored advice and regretted it, or followed advice you hated and later realized it saved you?
@FabrizioRomano Classic ambition talk, but at Liverpool that pressure isn’t “chance to win titles” it’s “win immediately or the noise starts”… do you think he’s ready for that level of expectation?
Nobody talks about this enough 👇
5M impressions in a month doesn't come from 1 banger post.
It comes from 90 posts. Daily engagement. Sharp hooks. Zero excuses. Consistency over perfection. Always.
Are you built for it? Tell me below 👇
@instablog9ja “Magic charcoal” on a front line sounds like one of those things you hear and just pause for a second… is this survival efficiency or just the reality of limited resources nobody talks about?
Girls, get your own money. Choose your own path. Work hard. Travel often. Take care of your health. Love your parents. Buy the bag. Book the flight. Try the thing that scares you.Don’t put your life on hold waiting for the “right man.” People leave. Relationships end. Friends change. Not everyone will be happy when you win. So build a life that doesn’t fall apart when someone walks away.Make yourself proud. Make yourself happy. Make yourself free.
At the end of the day, you are the one person you’ll spend every second of your life with. Invest in her. 🤍