The biggest advice I can give anyone is to move to a different state and city for a year, not know anyone, and fully detox from your current surroundings, figure out who you really are and who you really want around you. It’s a necessity.
i have wasted so many moments of my life worrying about if i looked skinny enough. its an insult to myself. i am so much more than the size of my pants. we allllllll are.