If you have a baby with a dude anything you say as a diss to him is null and void because went through childbirth for him. If you did that without even having an idea of who he really is, then we shouldn’t trust your judgment anyway
An OG told me as a youngin. If you can tell a girl really likes you already, let her game herself into falling in love with you.
It took me years to grasp the true depth of that.