Nanya 💐💐💐

Nursing student 🇳🇬 🇬🇧

[Nanya 💐💐💐 @BeYoutiFull3]

Loose lips sink ships 🚢

[Tiwa Savage ⚔️ @TiwaSavage]

Protect your ENERGY at all costs⚡️⚡️

[R.O.O @rukhayah]

In all of this, I just want to thank women that fought tooth and nail for women’s rights to education, employment, ownership and everything we take for granted now. Let all of protect our mental health and peace which ever way we choose 🙏🏾

[Nanya 💐💐💐 @BeYoutiFull3]

5. I think human behaviour is largely often controlled not just by morals, but by social consequences, shame, and fear of retaliation too.

Not even just in relationships. In life generally

[Nanya 💐💐💐 @BeYoutiFull3]

and public embarrassment feel when the roles are reversed.

[Nanya 💐💐💐 @BeYoutiFull3]

4. A lot of male loyalty codes seem to operate in a “man vs man” way.
Almost like:

“Do whatever you want, just don’t disrespect me.”

And maybe that’s why men themselves strongly enforce these unspoken rules. Because they know exactly how betrayal, humiliation, replacement,

[Nanya 💐💐💐 @BeYoutiFull3]

3. That contradiction says a lot to me.

It makes me question whether some of these “codes” are purely about morality, or whether they are also about ego, territory, pride, and respect between men.

[Nanya 💐💐💐 @BeYoutiFull3]

2. Because interestingly, some men can openly joke about cheating on their own wives, yet the moment another man touches their wife, it suddenly becomes the ultimate disrespect.

[Nanya 💐💐💐 @BeYoutiFull3]

1The Male Code & Infidelity

I sometimes wonder if part of the reason sleeping with another man’s wife is treated as such a serious taboo among men is because men deeply understand the humiliation and emotional pain they themselves would feel if it happened to them.

[Nanya 💐💐💐 @BeYoutiFull3]

@OgaHans I find it concerning that grown adults struggle to communicate without resorting to derogatory or condescending language. The man simply shared an opinion, clearly accompanied by a disclaimer. it was not presented as an instruction or obligation for others to follow.

[Nanya 💐💐💐 @BeYoutiFull3]

https://t.co/a2gcT3HqzZ
You should fight often

[jezz @JezziiB]

I hate the narrative that women are more emotional than men.

Actually no.

Men make up 90% of prison populations…because they can’t control their anger, lust, or addictions.

[Nanya 💐💐💐 @BeYoutiFull3]

Imagine getting to work and your oyinbo colleague says,
“Is it true men in your state rape women as a festival?”

Now you’re sweating, trying to say “it’s not our culture.”

But online, some of you were laughing.

who turned this crime into something the world can attach to us?

[Eni Adeoluwa @Enioluwa]

There are things that happen in this country your mind can’t even proces, if you sit with them too long, your head just starts to hurt.

It feels like we keep discovering new lows. Just when you think we’ve hit rock bottom, somehow it goes even deeper.

[Nanya 💐💐💐 @BeYoutiFull3]

Who made this a culture? 😭
What’s the aim ? humiliation? power? violence?

And why are so many men laughing?

If you can watch this and feel nothing, check yourself.
Silence is not innocence,it’s agreement.

Would it still be funny if it was your mother? Your sister?
SHAME!

[Nanya 💐💐💐 @BeYoutiFull3]

@aproko_doctor The culture made by men you mean ? 😭

[Nanya 💐💐💐 @BeYoutiFull3]

I can handle stress, chaos, and life’s problems. But give me a form to fill and suddenly I need a nap. I absolutely loose the will to live 😭
There should be a support group for people like me

[OurFaveOnlineDoc 🇬🇧 🇳🇬 @OurFavOnlineDoc]

If you have to threaten violence, threaten harm or actually harm people, all in a bid to “defend” your god, then your god is utterly useless, absolutely worthless and it is indeed a bloodsucking demon.

This message should be on every billboard for every Nigerian to see everyday.

[Mia♡ @luxemiaa]

There is not a single man on earth who thinks he mistreats women. Every man dishes out exactly what he thinks women deserve, and that is why you will never convince any of them to change. None of them think they're the problem.

[Talk Church @churchtalkative]

Don't go to bed tonight until you tell God these things!

[Nanya 💐💐💐 @BeYoutiFull3]

@John_Matthew_T Amen