My problem with ukubekezela in relationships is that you could be teaching your partner that there's no limit to what you can tolerate.
Every incident will be messier than the previous one because you didn't leave the first or second time.
Maybe the happy ending is that you fall in love with your life. Eat your favorite foods, admire sunrises and sunsets, pick up the book you’ve been trying to finish, dance to your favorite songs, buy yourself flowers, bring your mind back to how blessed you are.
Maybe the happy ending is choosing peace over pressure. Laughing so hard your soul feels lighter. Spending time with people who feel like sunshine. And learning to enjoy your own company like it’s the best place to be.✨
Ngiba nenhliziyo ebuhlungu just thinking about having to do something I am not prepared for in order to survive because right ukukhetha will not help me in any way. 😔😔😭😭😭😭
Be so calm about it that it ends up working itself out. Sometimes you just need to surrender and enter the trusting phase to allow things to come together for you.
Yoh kwaze kwathuleka yaz, silence treatment is really harsh and cruel, although I really want to leave manje because it's really weighing heavily on my heart, how can love be this inconsiderate and still expect me to be understanding, I am tired of trying.
Wasa bo Phindile playing the victim when she didn't even let aba kwa Hlongwane about Spha bese uzothi where were they when she was struggling with the kid tjo #HomecomingMzansi