the earlier men understand that the universe does not reward emotional or good guys, the better for them.
if you want to live long and go far in your finances as a man; you must be willing to be very tough, ruthless and strong enough to break all limiting rules of being that good guy.
have you ever asked yourself why most bad people seem to have things easier? they live comfortably & evenly powerful and their relationships always look stable while good guys are often left heartbroken, disappointed, cheated on, shattered or getting repaid with evil for the good they’ve done.
pay attention;
you need to learn not to give people unlimited access to your kindness. let people work for whatever you give them. it is proven that humans don’t value free things, people protect and respect what they worked for to get or acquire.
look any favour you render be it financially, emotionally, physically or otherwise, make sure it is worked for or earned & build solid boundaries too, say NO 95% of your time cos the harsh truth is that when your boundaries are weak, people will take advantage of that and milk you until there's nothing left but when it is tough, people will respect you more.
learn something 👍
Your excuses make sense. Your circumstances are real. Nobody is dismissing what you’ve been through or how hard things have gotten. But here’s the truth nobody wants to say out loud…none of that changes the outcome.
The world doesn’t grade you on difficulty. It doesn’t reward you for how rough the journey was. It only responds to results. And results only come from one place…a decision.
A stubborn, relentless decision to find a way when every sign is pointing you toward giving up.
Some people look at the same wall and see a dead end. Others see something to climb.
The difference isn’t talent, it isn’t luck, it isn’t even timing. It’s the choice they made when nobody was watching.
You either find a way or you find a reason. One of them moves your life forward. The other keeps you exactly where you are.
Choose carefully.
Be guided and good morning 🙏🏾
Funny how the human body works, about two weeks ago i could only do a 4 minutes plank, last week i did 5 minutes, and this morning i just did 6 minutes.
I don’t know if this is weird but I do not feel lonely nor miss people overall. People are charming and | love some of them a lot, but I have never felt lonely. Being by myself has always been comfortable and fulfilling, and some of my happiest memories are of times I spent alone.