Last time I checked, I am single and I have also have been abstaining from sex for over a year. My interactions with my mutuals on Twitter, a social media app mind you, should not bother anybody.
btw monogamy in the gay community does exist. and being hyper-sexual, open, or poly isnโt wrong. but โ pretending to b monogamous, to a monogamous person, when u can just be honest bout who u really are, is wrong.