Not to sound delusional, but please pray for grace. Life isn't really about hard work. It's more about meeting the right people, grace, mercy, and favour.
I love when I stick to the program. Whether it’s going to the gym, cutting someone off, eating right, or setting boundaries. When I validate my worth with my actions I gain more love and respect for myself.
I highly recommend being friends with ambitious people. Their drive pushes you to work hard for yourself, and they inspire you to do better and be better. Their good traits rub off on you; you start to want better for yourself and you grow.