Being 25 (almost 26) means that
- the people my age are still making up lost time from covid
- the people who are older than me aren't sure they wanna settle down
- the people younger than me are fundamentally different.
We are in, arguably, one of the hardest times to settle down and find someone we feel we can trust. It literally feels like I'm a fish out of water.
i don’t dm oomfs or message them individually very often. not because i don’t like them but because i’m horribly awkward in one on one conversations and repeat the same four phrases over and over