Unfortunately, a man who’s never been loved properly or been in a real, serious relationship will spend his whole life fumbling the first person who actually does love him. He’ll call boundaries “control,” communication “nagging,” and accountability “disrespect” because emotional intelligence is a language he never learned. Then he’ll sabotage every good thing that comes into his life and still convince himself he was the victim while having manipulative actions.
A woman’s detachment starts when she realizes she’s said the exact thing before multiple times, in different ways, with different tones. Calmly , then emotionally, then quietly, then in frustration and still nothing changed . Then she gives up.
a cheating man is bad enough. you know what is worse? a man who pretends to be good when in reality he’s a pathological liar, lustful, a manipulator and plays the victim.
If you’re able to move on very fast after a break up, it just means you didn’t really love the person you dated. Cos what do you mean you moved on after 2 days of a break up?
Breakups from loving relationships should take months; and even years in some cases to heal from.