@Nicolee_N19 too many people think commitment is synonymous with ownership. the sooner we figure out we don't own a person just because we put a ring on their finger the better. I am with a person because I choose to be not because someone tells me I have to be.
@Ve_Velvet21 have you started acting like you own him yet ? that usually comes with commitment. I can't speak for all men but I know that possessive, jealous, controlling aspect of commitment will damn sure push me away.