i'm learning to sit back and let people do whatever they want, because if my feelings genuinely mattered, that weird stuff wouldn't even be considered.
nobody can ever gaslight me into thinking i'm a bad person. i have my ways and my days, but i'm solid, my love is real and genuine every step of the way.
Sometimes you gotta remind people:
I was solid before you showed up, already blessed, already grinding. You added to the vibe, but you were never the reason for it.
Don't confuse access with credit.
I will shamelessly simp for the person I love . If they serve me breakfast , I will move on . If I meet someone else love , I will simp for them again 😂 ❤️
I will heal in heaven
Be nonchalant when it comes to women. In fact, the more nonchalant you are, the more women you tend to attract. Treat everything about dating and pursuing women casually. Don't carry anything woman-related on your head.
I've lived my life this way for a long time, and it has given me so much peace of mind. I can have 99 problems, but women or relationship wahala are never one of them.
It’s a scary place to be when everyone keeps telling you, you are doing very well, and you are doing so much.
But when you get home, alone, by yourself, you look at the mirror, and you know you are not doing enough.
I want to fall deeply in love this year, and not hold back.
Finished!
Like, I want to see my own person, and my chest will be doing gbim gbim.
The sparks, the warmth >>>>
I want to feel loved too.
To be fully immersed in someone willing and committed as I am.
date someone who is curious about you. not someone simply finds you attractive or entertaining. but someone who wants to know the person behind the surface, who reads every message, remember the stories you’ve randomly shared, noticed the little things no one else does.
1. Stock your house with food
2. Buy clothes for different occasions
3. Sort one or two things for family
4. Love bomb one fine babe with small doings(atleast Loneliness and Konji no go wound You for Sapa period)
5. Fine one unlimited router and buy(close eyes pay for 3-6months if you can afford it)
6. Safe lock your next rent on piggyvest
the kind of love I want is a safe, calm, and spontaneous love. I want both of us to be able to come to each other about anything, i want us to have countless days filled with laughter, and most importantly I want us to be loyal and respectful towards each other.