If you plan to spend days at your boyfriend's place, target when you're on your period.
Then compare how he treats you, with when you visit him without your period.
Do that for at least 3 months.
You'll see who you're dating.
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@adetejumi His parents are accomplice and should be apprehended
When I was kidnapped one of my abductors wife called and asked if my family was responding or not and suggested I should be killed if my family don’t want to negotiate (call was on speaker)
Their family always know
And it's why many of our fathers were able to get married before 30.
They channeled their resources to the right places, & many became landlords before they turned 40.
But you, as a young man, is wasting your hard earned resources untop toto wey no be only you dey knack.
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Young Men,
Tighten your belts.
What I spend as a married man & as a father each month, has tripled.
Save, & invest for your future.
Leave useless women who want to truncate your future, & go for the ones that'll key into it.
If Kongi hold you too much, go knack olosho.
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It's not poverty or bad economy that led women to start making relationships transactional.
It's the stupidity of men.
And most especially, a lot of young men do not want to make money legitimately anymore.
When men become theives, women becomes prostitutes.
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This evening, I was at a food joint around my place.
This Keke guy bought 3 Amala and 3 Ogunfe.
A total of N5,300.
He happily proclaimed that he was eating better under this Tinubu govt.
He seemed so proud of himself and he wanted
Imagine make dem knack your babe overnight.
Her toto go come swell up for morning.
She go come use hot water press am before she come see you.
And man wey know say your babe dey cheat on you, no dey ever pity her toto.
Tawai! Tawai! Tawai!
😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
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As a man, three things will make you tougher in life.
1) when you lose your loving father to death, at a very young age.
2) when you lose your source of income, & bounce back after sometime.
3) when a woman that you love so deeply, shatters your heart.
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Although I know that some men will forgive cheating women, but it's advisable for that woman to quit the relationship, even if the man doesn't want to.
He may be weak to let go, but he'll always be upset with himself for not having the balls to.
And he'll show you shege.
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As a single woman, if you have money to buy a Benz, buy a Toyota.
If you have money to flex life, do it on a low key.
But keep your eye on a man that you know can afford better than what you can afford for yourself.
Otherwise, men who can't afford it, will exploit you.
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Let me remind men of something.
No matter the age of the lady, do not ever tell her at first meeting, that you'll like to marry her.
Also, don't date a lady in her 30s, if you don't have intentions to marry her.
If you become convinced, then you can now let her know.
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finished.
She'll be unapologetic when she wants to move on.
And she would have long found your replacement, before breaking your heart.
Forget about cheating, & lead that relationship as a man should.
And keep letting her see your progress in life.
She'll fall in line.
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reciprocating it.
The more she invests in you, the more loyal she'll become.
Because women are more loyal to their sacrifices, not yours.
But if she has not sacrificed anything in that relationship, other than giving you sex for money, she'll not pity you when your money is
And when you do, you'll be hurt but you'll not be hurt & still regret your huge financial wastage on her.
Because what pains men the most, is the resources they have spent to sustain their relationships.
As you're doing the little that you're doing for her, ensure that she's
caught.
Especially, if they know that they're about to lose a potential husband.
Just let her know that your red lines are extreme disrespect and cheating.
And stop monitoring her or using money to entice or keep her.
You'll eventually catch her, if she doesn't change.
to cheating, you will look for other things to focus on.
It's a only a foolish woman that will see that she has a good man, & a man that if he marries her, will be responsible, that will not know when to stop cheating.
This is why they get very defensive & dangerous when