Please donโt ever let anyone shame you for liking the finer things in life (and Iโm not talking about liking them nge mali za bantu) but liking the finer things will literally improve your quality of life bc o tlai tsela matsapa and you will make sure.
one of the main reasons iโm so gentle with myself is cause i believe iโve already experienced enough hardship in my life. iโve already been mishandled and undervalued by others and myself at times. so i deserve more patience, forgiveness, and consideration at this point.