When you guys get a chance please watch an episode of cutting edge, any episode! Those are the lived realities of a lot of South Africans. While our leader shout "clock it" and you guys find that entertaining. Watch cutting edge.
Always give men a problem to solve. Like immediately. If a man stops you and asks for your number, immediately ask if he has a pen. And don’t give the number until he finds one.
That’s how you establish dominance early.
Girls need to understand that the whole point of having a boyfriend is to exploit his labour as an assistant, which should allow you to be even more fabulous
My girlfriend once told me something during an argument that I never forgot.
She said, “You always tell me to talk to you when something hurts me, but whenever I do, you defend your intentions instead of trying to understand why I was hurt.”
“You don’t have to agree with every feeling I have. But you should care enough to acknowledge it. Your intentions may explain why you did something, but they don’t erase the impact it had on me.”
Then she said something that stayed with me: