I have no interest in becoming so spiritually evolved that I stop enjoying perfume, beautiful rooms, good food, flirting, flowers and being adored. Earth is lovely. I came here to participate.
Toyin deserved to be here. She deserves to celebrate with loved ones. She deserved to flourish and grow. She deserved to grow as an activist and heal in peace from her trauma. Her story deserved to be told.
Her life mattered
the concept of “having a person”/fate/soulmates is much less romantic than the truth which is that the foundation for all types of relationships is agency and mutual consent. choosing each other in every season and evolution. the beauty is in *choice.*