@destiny_ndlovu Some people attend funerals more faithfully than they ever visited the person when they were alive. Performance is apparently easier than genuine relationships.
liking each other is the easy part. the real work is learning how to communicate, regulate your emotions, respect boundaries and being peace to each others nervous system.
Pastors are the luckiest fravdsters alive. Their victims do not know they are being defravded because they believe every money they give to the Pastor ends up with God.
The reason you attract us broke guys it is because you are also a broke girl. We have access to you because you're in the same circles/environment we are in. If you were rich, we wouldn't even know of your existence.
Hurts me to say this: Africa will not be saved by entrepreneurship. We cannot vibecode ourselves into the 4th industrial revolution. We still need to industrialize. To achieve this, we need stronger and better public institutions. We need extremely competent leaders at the helm.
Jobs are really disappearing. The economy is collapsing. Capitalism is becoming more ruthless. Al is disrupting everything. Poverty is rising. Work life is becoming relentless. There is NO housing. Everything is unaffordable. Authenticity is fading. What is left to live for??