the more you heal, the more of an acquired taste your boundaries become to those that benefitted from you not knowing your worth. allow your growth to filter out any energy that has overstayed its welcome.
many things will have to be removed from your life before you start to see your path more clearly, many identities will have to be destroyed before you start to see yourself more clearly, embrace the unexpected losses and changes; they are steering you in the direction of growth.
Men don't understand that women are reciprocators not initiators. She steps after you step. She gives off your energy. You lead, she follows. It's as simple as that.
Nobody really talks about how waiting on God is hard. Somedays you have it all together and some days you burst into tears wondering how long this season would take.