When you expose the narcissist for the terrible things they actually did, they’ll turn around and tell terrible lies about you as if they’re teaching you an equal lesson, like, “How do you like it when people say bad things about you? It’s not very nice, is it?”
Like they actually don’t seem to understand the difference between you telling the truth about them and them telling lies about you. All they understand is: “You made me feel pain, so I make you feel pain. It’s the same thing.”
And this would be another false-equivalence that narcissists pathologically depend on to manipulate reality, making two fundamentally opposite things appear equal in a desperate attempt to conceal the vast abyss between their emotional stagnation and the emotional growth indicative of a lifetime of conscientious self-examination, and effort, and spiritual work of the people around them…a veritable mountain of work compared to the stagnant plane of the narcissist’s refusal to pursue their own emotional growth.
And of course, the rest of us have to be cut down in order for them to be comfortable remaining stagnant.
Good We should leave them alone and make sure we don't destroy the planet for them as well but without stagnation for us
We have a duty of care for them and us too
they do not know us and would not understand us or where humanity is right now we would see psychologically and possibly biologically be upsetting to them so best to leave them be ❤️❤️❤️
When you have been identified as a scapegoat by a narcissist, they will obsessively try to author your identity and who you are. They think they are now the arbiter of your reality and how people perceive you.
Have you ever experienced this?
It is the weirdest, most insane thing to witness how desperately and obsessively they need you to be something you’re not.
It is so strange and so bizarre.
It’s frightening. It’s frightening because you realize you are not dealing with a rational person at all. You know you’re not dealing with a person you’re dealing with something wild and irrational and dangerous. And that awareness is so alarming it can traumatize you into PTSD