@sensual_xsplash This!!!!!
I’m barely starting out and I didn’t know that asking other findom creators for some tips or ideas would cause such nasty behavior from them in return.
I don’t care what anyone says, findom has gotten mean and weird. The girls don’t even support each other anymore. Everybody is watching, judging, screenshotting, subtweeting, exposing, and waiting for another woman to make one mistake so they can publicly embarrass her. The subs don’t even act like subs anymore. They don’t know how to approach a domme, court her, compliment her, or send just because they admire her. They want endless conversations, free attention, proof, pictures, and entertainment before they’ve spent a dollar. Then they become rude or disappear the second a woman sets a boundary. Girls are competing with women who could have been their friends, and subs are demanding princess treatment from the women they claim they want to worship. Nobody knows how to have fun anymore. Everybody is defensive, suspicious, angry, or trying to prove something. Findom used to feel playful, exciting, and powerful. Now it feels like women bullying each other while men beg them for free access. What happened?? 😮💨