this is so fucking disturbing. after causing a situation that led to him being dragged all over social media for days shes still trying to pass him notes with god knows what written on them 😭?? its honestly insane to me how someone can put another person in these kind of situations and then act like nothing happened. at what point does the company step in and do something about this??
the conclusion from all these mess: don't be a crazy fan. be normal. idol is not your real boyfriend. don't cry & throw tantrum if you don't get interaction with them. they're humans who don't have to do what you ask them to do.
stress.
So apparently no. 10 was a girl who would go mental if she wasn't chosen by Gunwook. And he had to suffer the brunt of it all these past few days and being hated on by the entire industry all because she was delusional out of her mind..
#FREEGUNWOOKFROMPSYCHOTICDELUSIONALFANS
i saw a tweet the other day talking about a gw jfan who seemed to be someone who attends many fansigns/events, who was crouched down sobbing at the kc*n la front row barricade last year for a super long time just bc gw took a selfie with different fans at another part of the stage, and she kept repeating she wanted to ☠️
and i know they must be talking about the exact same jfan who i was standing directly behind at kc*n la day 1 last year
she suddenly bent down in front of me at one point and was straight up crouched down at the barricade full on SOBBING while her friend was patting her back and comforting her, and she stayed like that for soooo long me and my cousin were wondering wtf was wrong
and then when gw would pass by, her friend would try to get his attention and point out the sobbing jgpd as if trying to guilt him and imply he was the reason for this/he should comfort her, and he looked very confused and worried but made a sorry face and apologizing hands 🙏 to her as she continued to cry in front of the barricade and she stayed crying even afterwards....
the behavior exhibited by the fan was truly insane at the time and i felt bad for gw, but i feel even worse now knowing she was doing all that just bc he took a selfie with a different fan on the other side of the stage??? huh???😭
some of these serial fansign attendees become super obsessive and parasocial to the extreme and begin to want, demand, and expect more and more from their fave bc they spend so much and see them so often
may delete this but i think it gives some nuance and highlights just how unhealthy the dynamic can become when u have a top spending fan who comes to a bunch of ur fansigns/fancalls/events and begins to place super excessive expectations on u, all while u are expected to try to keep them happy
tau ga rasanya jd gue yg biasnya RK (suka dikata2in & ga dianggep kena mistreatment, dibilang dia so so wkt masi d zb, dijadiin becandaan krn skrg partnya tetep dikit) & GW yg skrg lg diamuk2 warga sampe bawa2 fisik pdhl mah bahas aj kesalahannya, emang dia salah.
combo ga tuh