@urPpal@Henrytheefirst Sorry you had to deal with that stuff 😔. My wife had a tough pre and post pregnancy too. I watch my kiddo while she’s away a lot. So I wouldn’t change my mind, but I do understand differing opinions are ok! Hope you’re doing better!
@urPpal@Henrytheefirst I will say, I don’t think it’s unreasonable to ask his wife to stay active, get a job, and help contribute to retirement when the kids are gone. Seems fair to me.
@urPpal@Henrytheefirst It’s definitely a tough, sometimes thankless job for sure. If your husband doesnt help in the middle of the night with your kids, that kind of makes him a shitty teammate. But I agree, tough job 100%