I fucking love people who become more themselves with age. Stranger taste. Clearer boundaries. Louder laugh. Less interest in impressing random people. Watching somebody slowly stop auditioning for the world is fucking beautiful.
Personally, I think we should be okay with having a beautiful conversation with a stranger & leaving it at that. Exchanging contacts is not always necessary. I think one of the beautiful things in life is being able to remember a good conversation with a random person & move on.
me being self centered saves me from being a hater or envious of others because I dont even be paying enough attention to folks to even come up with certain conclusions