Once you leave a relationship with a narcissist, it takes so much work to get the old you back. You question your choices, doubt yourself, and have to learn to trust and love yourself again. That’s what happens when your relationship was about them and only them. It drains you.
Couples in healthy relationships also argue, have different opinions, feel frustrated, insecure and bored at times. Healthy doesn't mean perfect. What makes a relationship perfect is HOW you choose to move through those challenges TOGETHER.
Everyone is not welcomed to my home. This is my safe haven, personal space, where I lay my head, gather my thoughts, & gain my peace. All company isn't good company. Refuse to have negativity where I reside.