Every time you are playing a game against a girl and deliberately let her win because you think beating her might bruise her ego
Every time a guy and a girl are competing and you deliberately support the girl, not because she earned it, but because you do not want to hurt her feelings 🧵
This guy just called this a waste! That’s my Dstv remote bro!! I knew I shouldn’t have left this guy alone in my sitting room after the Remote stories I’ve heard about him
Every time you are playing a game against a girl and deliberately let her win because you think beating her might bruise her ego
Every time a guy and a girl are competing and you deliberately support the girl, not because she earned it, but because you do not want to hurt her feelings 🧵
The mere fact that someone is a woman does not automatically mean she deserves the same salary as every man in the organisation. Equality does not mean identical outcomes regardless of circumstances. It means people should not be disadvantaged simply because of their sex.
If you genuinely believe women are equal to men in dignity, intelligence, agency and capacity to make decisions, then treat them like adults.
Evidence should matter more than gender.
There is a difference between saying, “I respect you enough to treat you fairly,” and saying, “I think you're a woman, so I need to protect you from experiences that every adult should be capable of handling.”
If you constantly suppress criticism, you do not create emotional strength. You create an environment where the person never learns how to handle criticism
You cannot teach someone that their gender gives them an exemption from ordinary social consequences and then complain when they start using that exemption.
You cannot tell women their gender give them an in into any organisation irrespective of competence and complain of female dominance and decline in quality later on
You cannot spend years telling women, through your behaviour, that they have what it takes to defeat a man no matter the inferiority in skill displayed and complain that they are now delusional.
You cannot repeatedly communicate that women should never lose, never be embarrassed, never be challenged and never be held to the same standards, and then act shocked when entitlement develops.
And you are one of the reasons some women believe that growing up with dolls, watching Cinderella,playing house, dress-up, make-believe, nurturing roleplay and other basic activities automatically prepares them to compete with men in fields requiring critical thinking, spatial reasoning, risk assessment and adaptive problem-solving and some of them actually gain an in because of men like you as administrators
You are one of the reasons why some modern-day women, especially in sports, believe they deserve equal pay despite their obvious technical inferiority.
You become one of the reasons many of our brothers who are supposed to be the breadwinners of their families, taking care of their kids, are jobless because the position has been filled by a woman who believes her salary is for her makeup and maintenance, while a man's salary is for the whole family's needs, both the family he was born into and the one he built.
You are the reason many of our innocent brothers are in jail because people like you chose to rally behind a woman's compelling story before even looking at the evidence.
You are one of the reasons why most women are so delusional cus you can't just bring yourself to tell them the truth
You are one of the reasons many women believe men are so weak they can hit them without repercussion no matter how insignificant the argument is.
You are one of the reasons some women even believe An American woman who murdered her 3 kids will receive a slap on the wrist just because she is a woman and she actually might if she has someone like you as a judge.
You bring shame, dishonour and disrespect not just to men, but to humanity as a whole.
You are one of the reasons why our brothers are broken.
You are one of the reasons why the suicide rate among men is so high.
Every time you are placed in the position of a judge or you see a man and a woman arguing and automatically side with the woman because she is a woman, her story sounds more emotional, because she appears more innocent, because she is attractive, or simply because you instinctively feel that the woman must be protected not caring at all for the man's feelings
Every time you are on the hiring panel for a job and you pick women with less competence over men just because of physical attractiveness, perception that women are easier to manage, or the prospect of future romantic or sexual interest.
Every time you see an uncomfortable truth that you would have no hesitation telling a male friend, but suddenly become afraid to say it to a woman because “she's a lady,”
Every time a woman slaps you, hits you, especially in the presence of other female witnesses and you laugh it off without retaliation under the excuse of “I'm a gentleman,” when you would never accept the same behaviour from another man
Every time you are keeping goal during a boys-versus-girls game and intentionally put less effort into saving the girl's shots because you don't want her to feel bad when she loses
Every time a female friend says something disrespectful to you and you immediately know the perfect response, but swallow it because you don't want to hurt her feelings even though she had no such concern for yours. All because you may receive sexual advantages
My hungry broke ass on my way home after 8 to 5 lecture to cook my last spaghetti
My roommate: Guy we bought sniper today oo, we even used your kerosene mix am kill bedbug