Give her all the shit you want about west but I really think she did want to make things work with Kyle IF they could get to a good place. I don’t think he gave the reassurance that they would. Hence him feeling guilty and responsible now.
Rewatched part of #IntheCity episode 4 which aired last night. Just trying to understand the nuances in what loving someone, being in love and not feeling the love is all about. This really resonated and despite Amanda’s despicable behavior in #SummerHouse reunion, interesting
Hind sight is odd & there were deff feelings brewing. But let’s acknowledge this entire group is weird around each other. I watched an old ep where Paige talked about having sex dreams about Kyle. Like they joke sexually about each other and it IS strange but a lot of them do it.
Bravo better not skim over the “watch my butt as I walk away” scene. Not only do I want it brought up, I want the clip to be shown to everyone, and I want to see and hear everyone’s reactions. Because, I’m sorry- that WAS NOT just an “emotional connection” behavior. #SummerHouse
@DarthMother64 This reinforces what we already were thinking! I feel at younger ages they are just as enamored with smaller things so why not take advantage while you can. If you set the bar too high early you have to keep doing bigger and better.
I love this for her. I think I personally have a defect where I can’t let other people parent my kid while I’m there or I combust. Other than my mom haha but generally if I’m there I feel the need to do all the things regardless. I would prob be less stressed if I could let go.
I know this is obnoxious for me to say but this is why I hang out with my kids and my nanny all day 😂 it feels like getting a break from my kids (having to feed and water them all the time, adjudicate fights, help them use the potty) while still getting to be with them
@tallsnail I get a lot of 1 on 1 with him but the picnic concept, like eating on the ground outside, was really interesting to him. We were also up north and there was a baby deer statue that was especially awe inspiring lol. It does make you realize less is more sometimes.
@VELV3TG0LDMINE I don’t even particularly like Emilia (also don’t dislike) and really didn’t like her character the last few seasons, but she’s taking accountability and owning her own faulty reaction. Like, there is nothing to hate on here.
@badoriginalist Lol my 4yo love Gilmore girls. I started watching it while he was around playing cause it doesn’t have anything “bad” in it and now he’s invested. His favorite character is “Lou” 😂
Yeah this how idea is very blame the wife that the husband is shitty. Dislike Amanda all you want. But don’t put Kyle’s wrongdoings in her. She has her own. Let’s look at things with some nuance ppl.
@weiss_hadas lol sometimes when I ask too many questions on the ride home my 4 yo tells me “I’d like to just be quiet and listen to the music now, okay?” And like, okay dude, I get it 🤷♀️
@ErinNudi … if he wanted to help her put out menus before the dinner rush. It was really kind and shook him out of the mood he was in, also gave us a second to breathe and regroup. The rest of dinner went great. I really appreciated her noticing and offering a nonjudgmental hand.
@ErinNudi My 4 yr old is generally very good in restaurants but one evening we went out when we probably shouldn’t have. He was tired, over stimulated etc. he was having a hard time behaving to the standards we set, a waitress who recognized us as regulars came over and asked…
I think she would be valid to say, you know what I’m actually not comfortable around Danny when he drinks, that’s a line for me & I don’t want to be around him at all, or at least when he’s drinking. But she doesn’t say that, she keeps going back and forth w/ how over it she is.
@RealityTVBliss You can drink certain amounts, a certain amount before feeding and/or after. I forget the exact science but it’s safe, and there are even test strip to be overly safe. I’m sure mom of 4 Nia knows how to do it safely.