I’m the girl who handles all her hard days in silence. I don’t complain much, I don’t always ask for help, & I rarely vent. I carry my own weight & I’ll always move through life with that I’ll figure it out mindset.
A girl on tik tok just said "I would rather adjust my life to your absence, than adjust my boundaries to accommodate your disrespect" and I think that a lot of people need to take that and really engrave it into their soul.
Sometimes as an adult you have to decide "this is the last time these people are gonna make me feel this way" and stand on it. Be it family, a relationship or a friendship.
I saw a quote that said.. "You could literally be fighting for your life, and some people will only notice how you're not showing up for them." Let that sink in.