The real issue is that you are never willing to date your age mates until you click 30. From 19 to 27, you only want a man older than you because they are much established. Now you're in your 30s and you're attacking your age mates for wanting younger women.
When you were 23 looking for 30 years old men having refused to date your mates, were you not aware that there were 30 years old women who wanted those men too? For you to date up, it means the men were dating down.
The principle is constant. As you're in your 30s now, there are young women in their 19s to 27 who want 30+ men. You'll not decide for the women what age grade to date and you'll never decide for the men you rejected when you were younger, what age grade to date.
European men are ripping those three dancing 50/50 Nigerian ladies to shreds on instagram. Theyβre saying they feel very bad for Nigerian men in the UK.ππ
I told you guys that my friend in UK linked a 9ja babe to his white friend and the werey was asking him to book her uber for the date. Dude was confused.
When he reported to my friend, we were laughing in shame.
"Just guide"
"My odogwu spender"
"The men who have the money are not complaining"
"Marry first"
"I will simp for my wife"
"And apologise for peace to reign"
Painful lessons will be learned
Ordinarily, as a man, I probably shouldnβt be sharing a video that reveals this little secret. However, ladies, you can take the advice if you want.
Some of una go call am small girl talk, but this young lady just drop better wisdom here.
@Wizarab10 The best of men are still men. If men donβt get the accolades for the good other men do, men shouldnβt get the blame for the evil other men perpetrate.
In some families, everyone sells what they have to support one person. Even the siblings' education are sacrificed. Those siblings would go look for any type of work to do - even the work that comes with humiliation, - and still send you money to support you.
If people are crying about black tax, you better keep quiet. You're a product of black tax yourself. Always know the family you come from. Don't let privileged people tell you about black tax.
People will tell you that "everybody will be alright even if you don't help." Na lie ooo. You would not have been alright if they didn't sacrifice for you. Ensure the people that looked after you are well looked after. Ensure your family can feed.
Some of you blew up as superstars in whatever field you delved into. You're the light in your family. Accept your reality. Money eaten alone is not sweet.
The both ladies who spoke on this video did well, some things about relationships, dating and marriage are changing in Africa,
In societies like Nigeria or Africa, most men were raised to believe it is their duty to care for and provide for women.
Women were mostly taught to be wives and be taken care of by a man. Today these norms are changing.
Many men categorize most women as beggars who always ask for money. Meanwhile, many women now work hard to build something for themselves.
βI Once Dated a Man I Didnβt Like Because Of Money. At The Time, I Was Going Through Financial Difficulties, And He Came Along. Honestly, He Wasnβt My Type, Either In Appearance Or In Terms Of My Personal Standards. I Knew The Kind Of Man I Truly Wanted. So, I Dated Him For The Money And Eventually Broke Up With Him When The Kind Of Man I Wanted Came Along. Today, Iβm Married To That Man.β ~ Lady Speaks At KayHikerClub π
It is not the men you're worried about. You don't care about them. It is the women who are unmarried as a consequence because the men do not want to get married, that you're worried about.
Stop being afraid of being called stingy. You donβt owe anybody generosity. Some people are experts at using the word stingy to emotionally manipulate you to give or spend what you canβt afford. After making you useless financially, they will still call you broke!