@melodymlyons If an adult is beyond their 30s and they still grapple with a damaged nervous system due to childhood pain, and they "don't know how to get out of it," it is their responsibility to seek help. Healing is possible and ultimately inevitable. But some aren't ready
@melodymlyons Thank you. I hope the same for you, and I hope the same for our children. We learn as adults that we are responsible for our own healing. Give Grace. Do not cling to grievances.
@melodymlyons Who demands that kids pretend to be fine? I was hurt by my parents (as most kids inadvertently are), I did not get along with my mother and rarely agreed with her. But I will never regret being kind and caring towards her, especially in her final years.
@melodymlyons The burden of repair hinges on the commandment "Honor your father and your mother." God chose our parents (and our children) specifically for us and they cannot be canceled. This is the first generation to think it's okay to discard your parent.
@Ravenismeee Yes. When I hit 70 I hit a wave of panic about running out of time. I got over it and relaxed into downsizing so I don't leave a mess when I check out, probably within the next 20 years or so. It's a peaceful resignation yet continue to learn, create, and be of service
Mother's Day is usually the saddest day of the year for me and so I focus on my adopted mother (mine is deceased). She was so happy I spent time playing Yahtzee with her. It's the most loving thing you can do for the elderly. Spend time, even a short time, while you can.