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I want to name something most parents won't say out loud.
Reaching out to college coaches feels like begging.
It feels like standing there with your hat in your hand, asking a stranger to please look at your kid.
Some part of you thinks that if he were really good enough, you wouldn't have to do this.
That the good ones get found, and the ones who have to ask are announcing something about themselves.
I understand it. I felt it at seventeen.
I'd been benched on homecoming, in front of my parents, in front of everybody I went to school with.
Then I sat down and started emailing college coaches, and every single one of those emails felt like admitting nobody wanted me.
Here's what I know now that I didn't know then.
That feeling is not information.
It's embarrassment, and embarrassment is a terrible advisor.
Because here's what's actually happening on the other end.
A college coach has a job to fill spots with players who can help him win.
Your son emailing him is not a favor being asked.
It's a candidate applying.
Nobody thinks a kid is begging when he applies to a university. He's applying.
Nobody thinks an adult is begging when he applies for a job. He's applying.
This is the same thing, and the only reason it feels different is that the sports version comes wrapped in a story about being discovered.
A kid who asks is not less talented. He's just less passive.
And the families who get this are the ones who end up with options.
Not because their kids were better.
Because they stopped waiting for permission to participate in their own son's recruitment.
I contacted 1000s of coaches. I finished with 15+ offers and over $500K on the table.
Not one of those coaches found me.
Every single one of them heard from me first.
I learned a lot at the @GSU_MBasketball elite camp! Finishing at the rim and getting the 2 points isn't fancy, but it's necessary. I'm here to do the dirty work.
Grind never stops. 🏀 #12
Class of 2027 | @HIESbears@swainbasketball |Atlanta, GA
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