You are allowed to fully close the door, even if you never get closure. Even if they never apologize, never understand, never become the person you hoped they'd be. Closure is not something someone else gives you it's something you build for yourself, out of the decision to stop
accountability is so important to me. nobody's perfect, but don't try to flip the script and make my reaction the issue when your actions lit the match.
Niggas scare me. Imagine thinking you locked in with a man and he out here telling ppl he don’t fuck with you like that or that he’s single. Lmaoooo that’s why niggas gotta go to jail and hell.
I’m real big on communication. If something changed, you could’ve talked to me. If you felt different, you could’ve told me that. I would’ve respected the truth way more than watching your effort change while you acted like everything was normal.
Unfortunately, not everybody will be bold enough to tell you they no longer vibe with you. Sometimes you just have to read the energy, subtract yourself from the equation, and never disturb them again.
I was in a situationship where the relationship only worked when I expected nothing. The moment I asked for clarity, consistency, or reassurance, things suddenly became "complicated." I learned that if asking for the bare minimum threatens the connection, the connection was never as strong as I believed
Dating someone with high emotional intelligence is not easy.
They notice patterns, inconsistencies, and emotional shifts. You can't manipulate them, play the victim, or hide behind silence. They expect honesty, accountability, and growth.
Repeated apologies without real change are not enough.
I hope you find someone who is as fun, loving, passionate, sensual, soulful, and spiritual as you. Someone who is intimate, open, and vulnerable with you in every single sense. Someone who is so completely compatible with you, it's like you both manifested each other.
I’m not available for anything that come with confusion, weird behavior, or constant problems. I don’t wanna be around people that always got something going on and expect me to keep dealing with it. I like my life simple, calm, and out the way. If being around you keep disturbing that, I’m staying away.
A man who lies can’t lead. A man who cheats can’t lead. A man who never takes accountability can’t lead. A man who lets pride, anger, and ego control his decisions can’t lead either. Leadership starts with character. If a man can’t be honest, disciplined, responsible, and respectful, he has no business expecting anyone to trust him with a household.