Carmine

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[Nuelxx @nuel_szy]

If you’re dating an avoidant, here’s the hard truth: There are usually two people they’re most emotionally entangled with, and neither of them is you.

1. Their Ex

[The Mutual Man @themutualman]

Chasing creates imbalance. When you constantly pursue others, you often attract people who are comfortable receiving more than reciprocating. Over time, this dynamic can reinforce avoidant patterns and leave you feeling unseen. Healthy relationships are built on mutual effort, not one person doing all the chasing.

For deeper insights, watch my YouTube or click the link in my bio.
#AttachmentStyles #Relationships #PersonalGrowth

[Men of Purpose @Men_Of_Purpose]

She literally explains why relationships feels so one sided.

[meowmeowmeowmeowmeowmeow @aaaaadjhfbjfjgk]

when i first read this manga i was on a trip and i cried because it made me realize my at the time girlfriend didn't love me and would never care enough about me for our relationship to work out. possibly one of the most upsetting reading experiences ive had

[GorgeousDreamer @DrianneBelleza]

27 things you should know your 20s

[Queen Liza🩷🤍💙 @KrystalWolfyAlt]

Genders

[Carmine @BYOBcrew]

@FullFrontalFrog Make him a playable character asap

[Sweet Fruit Wine🇵🇸🇨🇳🇮🇷🇻🇳🇨🇺🇱🇦 @sweetfruitwine]

Me when I deliberately ignore the historical context of “white pride” because I’m actually racist and just want to justify it to others in a stupidly simplistic manner.

[emmie. ✊🏿🦝📼⚽⚔️ @emeraldappul]

also tweeting the episode where garu's clone turns into a fucking bum

[MOVIE STRICTLY 🎬 @MovieStrictly]

Here are 10 solid relationship tips that are especially relevant for gay men, but most apply to any healthy romantic relationship:

1.Don’t rush emotional intimacy:
just because the connection feels strong
Chemistry can be intense, especially in same-sex relationships where there may be shared experiences or relief in being seen. Still, let trust and consistency build over time.

2. Be clear about your relationship expectations early:
Monogamy, open relationships, dating casually, or something in between—don’t assume you’re aligned. Talk about it instead of guessing.

3. Don’t ignore internalized shame or pressure:
Even in 2026, many people still carry subtle internalized homophobia. If it shows up, address it early so it doesn’t shape how you love or accept love.

4. Communicate jealousy instead of acting on it:
Jealousy isn’t automatically toxic—it’s information. What matters is how you talk about it and whether you use it to understand your needs rather than control your partner.

5. Build a life outside the relationship:
Strong couples aren’t fused together 24/7. Friends, hobbies, work, and personal space keep attraction and respect healthy over time.

6. Be honest about sexual compatibility early on:
Sex is often a big part of male relationships, but people avoid talking about it. Preferences, boundaries, and needs should be discussed openly, not guessed.

7. Watch for “saving” or “fixing” dynamics:
If one partner becomes the emotional rescuer and the other the “project,” resentment usually follows. Support each other, but don’t try to heal each other’s life for them.

8. Protect yourself from loneliness-driven decisions:
It’s easy to stay in unhealthy situations just to avoid being single. Learn to distinguish connection from dependency.

9. Respect different coming-out timelines and backgrounds:
Not everyone is at the same place socially or emotionally. Patience matters—but it shouldn’t turn into hiding or shame-based secrecy.

10. Choose consistency over intensity
A relationship that feels “stable, respectful, and predictable” is often healthier long-term than one that is emotionally extreme but unstable.

[The Sigma Mindset @thesigmamindset]

Men, You need to stop wasting your youth...

[anuj @anujistired]

dating someone who has never been in a relationship is so weird because they don’t know basic things such as 👍🏻

[Carmine @BYOBcrew]

@EDitMe__ @bust_jimmy But wouldn’t that just leave the responsibility on him? He just got done doing the effort now he has to do even more effort to get the other person to interact.

[✨NolaDarling_2.0 👩🏾‍💻✨ @SM_TechB3aute]

When a man does that….. sis just focus on yourself. You are too available and he doesn’t like you. 🫪🫩

[​𝐥𝐲𝐫𝐚 @sunnkssdseraph]

ACCORDING TO PSYCHOLOGY, if you always feel like people don't really like you, it's probably not because they don't. It's because you subconsciously filter out the evidence that they do. It is called
HYPERVIGILANCE. Usually, it comes from being bullied, never fully fitting in, or growing up around constant criticism. Your brain learned to look for rejection before connection.
If this resonates, this account is for you.

[copycat just livin' @Copycattoo]

Y'all should watch it instead of just bookmarking. when you finish it, 4 hour podcast feels like nothing