LETTER TO ALL "SHAWARMA AND ICE CREAM" MEN..
I think one of the most sincere and intentional questions every man should quietly ask a woman before proposing marriage is:
• This is what I earn. Can you live with this while I build?
With such question, you've successfully
✔️ KILLED illusion
✔️ RESET her Expectations
✔️ TRANSFERRED Responsibility.
If she consents to your proposal after this, she has chosen YOU.
She chose the real you and not a "fantasy" version of you.
If she says no, she has saved both of you, years of resentment.
Stop the numerous "shawarma and ice cream spree".
Quit those senseless money wastage on "iPhones and wigs".
Sit down, ask yourself this simple question: "Without this gifts, will she remain?"..
I saw a video about an hour ago, on a man who sent his sister to the hotel room where his "fiancee" cheats on him with another man.
The man apparently, had his suspicions, had his findings done and sent his sister to confirm.
The sister trusted the fiancee to the point of disagreeing with her brother at the mention of that.
What she saw at the hotel was a testament to the fact that "Money, expensive gifts, vacations, etc".. means nothing to a greedy and an unrepentant cheat.
So, what makes you think that the one you are intentionally "keeping" or trying to keep with money, will stay and be with you when push comes to shove?!
If someone who stops at nothing to make sure his wife to be is well taken care of and provides all her wants/needs.., could get such cruel treatment in return, then this may be your cue.
There's a saying that "Your choice of partner would either make or mar you for life".
It's true. Very true.
Once you pick a lady to get married to, you have success chosen your destiny, that of your children unborn and their children.
It is expedient that you focus, leave big bum bum alone.
Big breasts is not all that there is to life.
Her curves and complexion won't pay the bills.
Her bedroom prowess won't make you a fulfilled man.
Instead of sharwama and ice cream on every date, start having those intentional talks that will save you for life!
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I explained where I got it o, with a very good beating 😭😭
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A brother was murdered at IKOTA POLICE post , Lagos State in COLLABORATION with AJAH’s POLICE STATION.
This can’t keep going on in our nation & all keep quiet like it’s d norms. We want justice!!!
#JusticeForMujid@sowore@thatverydarkman@instablog9ja@OneJoblessBoy
A brother was murdered at IKOTA POLICE post , Lagos State in COLLABORATION with AJAH’s POLICE STATION.
This can’t keep going on in our nation & all keep quiet like it’s d norms. We want justice!!!
#JusticeForMujid@sowore@thatverydarkman@instablog9ja@OneJoblessBoy