@NefflynBe I got to experience me, my mom, my grandma, my great grandma, and my great great grandma in one room. It didn't mean anything as a kid, but when I think back on it, it's unbelievable.
@DesirableTruth So you DO want a transactional relationship, you just don't want to be the one to transact first. It's ok for her to give upfront and prove herself until you have "tangible proof" that she's deserving before you give her anything tho. Got it.