A woman working 40+ hours a week, paying for her own hair, nails, rent, car, food, and gas, handling everything by herself, is not going to be the soft, feminine woman you expect her to be. And no, she can’t bring you peace when she’s in survival mode.
I’m not crying… Y’ALL are 😭🥹 First thing I see on TikTok is a girl who moved in with her friend for 6 months just to get her life together. Friend told her rent was $350, she paid $400 anyway.
When it was time to move out… the friend handed her ALL $2,400 BACK 😭 and said she never needed the money, it was just to help her SAVE and go handle her business.
MY GOD 🥹 THIS is what love looks like. THIS is grace. THIS is being human.