I got hurt so bad last night I’ll never be able look at life the same. Stuff is like really traumatic and I don’t think people understand nor do they care.
i truly wanna be a WIFE BUT i wanna be a genuinely happy wife. A submissive wife. A loving wife. A peaceful wife. A secure wife. A comfortable and safe wife to a honorable, ambitious, hardworking, LOYAL, loving, romantic, funny, spontaneous God fearing husband
princess treatment doesn’t mean he buys me whatever i want. it means he LISTENS. he PROTECTS. he LEADS. he is HUMBLE. He communicates. he doesn't let me go to sleep crying or upset. he doesn't makes me feel like i'm hard to love. he is my PEACE in chaos and my HOME.
Pregnancy is HARD. Labor is HARD. Giving birth is HARD. Maintaining a good relationship with your partner during postpartum is HARD. Being a mother is HARD. Trying to love yourself while adjusting to a new body and life while still tending to a newborn is HARD.
Mothers have it HARD and still make it look so EASY. Don't discredit yourself girl it really is HARD. You just hold it all together. I see you.
At 30, you start to realise you don’t just want a boyfriend, you want a partner you can build a life with. Less small talk, more real conversations about life, values, and the future.