i saw a TikTok about a girl saying how she doesn't stay mad for long because either she's going to figure it out, or there's nothing that can be done about it. and as simple as that sounds is as simple as it is really
if you catch yourself BEGGING someone for…human decency? a response? time together? clarify? respect? some compassion? some kindness? you need to make a step back & realize you’re begging someone for bare minimum. that’s ridiculous beneath you. fuck that shit.
I always hear women say “my life wouldn’t be what it is today without my kids” or “I wouldn’t change having my kids for the world”…. I have never ever heard a woman say “I wouldn’t change being married for the world” and that’s how I know I���ve made the right decision.
my therapist told me the only way to control your emotions is to show them. you can’t control sadness you never show. then your sadness turns to anger, hostility, bitterness and resentment. and you have officially created a monster.