I'm really no longer interested in softening my rough edges for anyone. The world is literally spiraling and ya'll worried about if someone thinks you are too forward, too earnest or too blunt. I lost so many years trying to make losers feel comfortable.
Would you feel a way if you been with somebody for 6+ years and they say there private about there relationship and hardly will post but then see him or her posting pics with friends or people he or she met after yall been together 6+ years how would yall feel ?
I think friend betrayal hurts worse than betrayal from a partner because friendships are usually built on choice not obligation. A romantic relationship comes with expectations, jealousy, conflict, and the possibility that things might not work out. But a friend is someone who chooses to be in your life without any of that. They see your highs your lows & your insecurities, your wins, and often know parts of you your partner doesn’t. So when a friend betrays you, it can feel like they had a front row seat to your life and still chose to move against you. It’s not just losing a person it’s losing trust, memories, loyalty, and sometimes the version of yourself that felt safe with them. That’s why for me friend betrayal leaves a wound that’s harder to explain and longer to heal.